Needless to say, I did not stop playing the game completely. My husband and I have found a game that I enjoy playing with him, so we continue to get online together on date nights or random moments. We have gotten online enough together that we are now level 31 characters. It may seem that we have leveled quickly and therefore have spent long days grinding away, but our high level is mainly due to the "refer a friend" program that WoW offers. I referred Paul to WoW and as a result, we are allowed to summon each other once an hour (this is handy so we don't have to waste so much time traveling to each other- especially if we have one character bound in one city, and the other character bound in another city. We can use our hearthstone to bring us to our bound city, then summon the other person. Poof! We saved an hour of travel time!), we get triple the experience points when we are grouped together (which allows us to get so much experience that we "outgrow" our quests, meaning they become too easy for us too quickly and we cannot finish all of them before we level), and it will give me a mount (an animal to ride, increasing my travel time by 60%) once he is online for 3 months. This has been a great incentive to refer a friend, and a great alternative to the frustrating grinding it takes to get anywhere in the game.
So, now that I have settled into a Sunday night game time pattern with my husband, it was about time to admit I needed to add some tools. Paul had been using Carbonite Quest for a while to help us locate quest locations, and I had been relying on him leading our little two person group. However, I get online occasionally by myself to do random little things, like work on professions. Since I had wanted to track where I found items I needed, I also added Gatherer, a program Paul found to track all the items you pick up. (I was thinking I was going to print out a map and draw color coded icons on it to denote where I found things, but what was I thinking in this techno age? Someone, of course, wrote a program to do just that!) So, I added Carbonite Quest and Download Gatherer as add-ons to WoW.
Here is what my new screen looks like:

You can see the Carbonite Quest on the right side of the screen listing out all the quests I have in my log. It shows me where to turn in the items, where to find items, and I can list people as “punks”! (I like the idea of being able to list people as “punks” when they kill my character for no good reason.)
Features (from the software website:)
Punks List - The Punks list is part of our enhanced Social window. It allows you to add enemy player names to the list and when detected near you or another Carbonite user in your guild or zone, it will alert you with a message, sound and draw a green circle on the map.
Map - The Carbonite map gives you all the information you need in one easy to use and flexible Google like map. Move, size or zoom it the way you like.
Favorites - Records map notes, targets and general comments.
Quest - Blaze through quests at lightning speed and level faster than you ever thought possible. Our extensive quest database lists the location of quest objectives and turn-ins. Simply click any objective from your quest watch list and Carbonite will show you where to go. No more wasted time bouncing back and forth between a web browser and the game.
Battlegrounds - Dominate your opponents with our enhanced battleground map. See the location and names of all your teammates. See objective timers right on the map and issue orders with a click of the mouse – call for reinforcements to attack a vulnerable enemy target or simply announce the status of an objective. “He who knows when he can fight and when he cannot, will be victorious.” - Sun Tzu
UI - Windows can be moved, sized, scaled and locked. Values are saved for each character. Coexists well with most UI addons.
Privacy - Not in a social mood? Just turn off communication with guild, friend or zone and other Cabonite users won't see you on the map.

